You’re excited by the premise of partaking in a steamy adult live cam show. But maybe you understand you’ll feel awkward the moment you pop into the cam room. There she is, a sexy adult girl laying on a bed, chatting and responding to dozens of other guys.
Who are you?
Well, she doesn’t know. You’re sort of a name in a hat, for lack of a better term. You know you want to flirt with the live cam girl, but you also don’t know what to say or do. You don’t want to feel marginalized or ignored, or worse, get kicked out.
Here’s some tips in flirting with XXX live cam girls.
Be Nice, Take It Easy Out of the Gates
Don’t bring the fire right away. Yes, some girls may dig more aggressive style chatter, but you’ll need to build up to that. Your initial stages in flirting with a live cam girl means complements and decency. Get her attention by saying something nice. It’s OK to say you’re excited to be a part of things. You need to develop those initial response chains and get a feel for how she and you prefer communications.
Guys tend to want to rush things, even in real life. No one enjoys waiting for things to happen. But when you’re trying to build relations with a XXX cam girl, you may need to spend a little time creating that essential spark. Men tend to overcomplicate the XXX cam room experience. It’s just a room. And you’re both people. So simplify the experience and thing of things just like that.
Be You
Don’t think that because someone else flirts in a specific way, you can go that route. Communication is an energy developed between two people. Flirting is a part of communication. Be you. You’re personality and her personality will help mold a communication style, which in turn, evolves into flirting. If you’re normally funny, you’ll probably end up leveraging that style. If you’re typically more sophisticated, then you’ll gravitate towards a more classy style.
When you try to hard, you lose yourself and then you come off like a fraud. Just because you are online doesn’t mean all social rules are void. Be you throughout, embrace your personality. Even if your personality is typically a bit hermetic and shy, you’ll be fine. Let your communications naturally progress. For some, those progressions come faster. For others, it takes more time. Sometimes deeper connections take longer periods of time. And that’s fine, depending on why you popped into the XXX live cam room. But only you understand that.
Be Creative
There’s a lot of dudes in popular cam girl rooms. So its easy to get drowned out. Try being creative with your comments and see if you can get her attention. “Your pretty” is nice, of course, but she sees that all day. You could try asking her if she has a favorite sports team. In this way, you stand out from all the guys asking her “her favorite sexual position.” For some girls, they get tired of talking just shop, they might want to talk about things they enjoy outside the cam room.
There are other creative ways to communicate as well. For example, write out meatier comments. Don’t just rely on the fire emoticon over and over. Put a real thought out into the chat and see if she responds. Look around the room, are there any items that might warrant further discussion? Being creative requires thought and processing information.
In the end, have patience and be yourself. Don’t worry too much about whatever anyone else is doing. There is no need to overcomplicate the XXX cam room experience.